Monday, August 09, 2010

Hello blog. It has been awhile and I really need you right now. I need to get something off my chest that has been bugging me and that's what you're really here for, right? My best friend from elementary school recently broke up with her boyfriend of about 5 years and it was pretty hard for her to deal with. I was trying to be the best friend that I could be for her and listen and offer support. However, now that she is in single-mode, she wants me to be her wingman. My boyfriend isn't too thrilled with that and it puts me in quite a situation on trying to be there for everybody. I also don't have that much money to go out and drink and eat and whatever other shenanigans could arise. I feel that because I can't be her wingman all the time that she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore. Anytime I try to see if she wants to grab coffee and catch up, she always has something planned. I tell her to let me know when she has time and she never gets back to me. She told me one time that she was my wingman when I was single and she went out while she had a boyfriend. I didn't feel that it was right to throw in her face that her boyfriend wasn't very trusting while we were out and would call and text her all the time while we were out. I'm starting to feel better already and think I can go to bed and sleep a little bit tonight after writing this down. I don't know if I should say something to her or maybe I am blowing things out of proportion. Should I just let it go and hope that she gets over it soon and meets somebody? Thanks blog for being there.